วันศุกร์ที่ 31 กรกฎาคม พ.ศ. 2552

You need the perfect gift for a hard-to-Please Teen? Try a black ribbon

Oh, I know, someone may not be a black belt, the more power it gives them a high school or university degree. But we can give them a push in the right direction, with the financial means to make the trip. Martial arts and travel is a dream, to surprise a lot of young people and children. So if you're looking for the perfect gift for a young person is difficult to find, or "between", if you want something similar, also contribute to them (and maybe you!) In a difficult phase of their lives by joining a martial art ! It should not be exaggerated, as payment for a year costs. Three months, one month or even one or two introductory courses are. Indeed, the search for a black belt will have a few years and can not be maintained by internal motivation of individuals. N. External motivation is the last. But if the road is drawn, where he met the first, timid step, and if the aim of making tangible, they tend to begin. The complex, find a school, in a conversation with adults, breaks the message to parents or friends, and then the money, but it can be a huge task for the test. If all of these databases is for you, if a teenager is more likely, at least try. And there are reasons that are significantly lower than the list Click ้, we have all heard about: discipline, defense, besides himself, etc. Yes, with a good school and teachers, which may be true. But why? How? Seven not lose the benefits of the arts fighter. Do-Miss Benefit # 1: A good alternative to electronic The practice of martial arts is a fun, healthy, natural recreation. It 'a good alternative for children who live in a video game, computer, television screen or mobile phones. Martial Arts for children to move, and the world around her (in fact a prerequisite, because awareness is 90% of the cars). I do not have statistics and information on children and adolescents from illnesses, for example in the areas of obesity, diabetes, ADD / ADHD, etc., you have heard. But what you may have concerns about health or the health of adolescents in the future with current patterns of practice martial arts is a good antidote. Practice martial arts (in practice) to help with mood, particularly important for young people who are emotional highs and lows so passionate, and hormones are raging (MA also endorphins), speeds up the metabolism, burns calories, works as a physicist anti-drug/alcohol (E 'impossible for many arts, whether drinking or drugs), develops flexibility, endurance and strength, increases the production of red blood cells in the blood and reduce blood pressure. This is just the tip of the iceberg. Do-Miss Benefit # 2: More respect for themselves and others Many children, for a variety of reasons, do not think they have the right to respect and appreciate what they are, for the same. Almost all children were equal to foppte a certain degree of "error" that is in the individual consciousness and may, for the leadership of the Kid's opinion. This lack of self-respect and self-evaluation, when in the course of time may be feelings of anger or inadequacy. Martial Arts by a good education in a positive climate, young people learn that they are not more or less "wrong" than any other. This same common sense that this is normal, not perfect, is an important factor in the development and maturation of young people and children. Do-Miss Benefit # 3: Learning to earn his way E 'a dangerous tendency in many children the basic assumption for the life they are entitled to something of little or nothing. This setting can be done things that are too easy or too difficult things. Perhaps you can sense an error in one or more areas of life for young people: school, social, sports, events, or maybe some embarrassment for the family or home (for example, not as rich "rich" children, it is not as bad as "cool" of children). Over time, I am convinced that children out on the feeling of success, most of the connections seem to accept and even normal, and therefore are more easily so they deserve. I think these guys work to earn benefits and combat, they learn, you can be successful on the nature and the old fashioned way. You do not need links. You are in this situation. They have their ways of learning and confidence and pride in the service. Do-Miss Benefit # 4: A rite of passage Many cultures have rites of indigenous peoples, under which young people have the right, as adults. The "Options", there is a gap, particularly for young people in transition is not very vulnerable in society society. In other words, with little hope of ferry time, not training or awaiting training, or simply the ability or desire to enter college, little hope, have proved their worth with peers and adults. In other words, do not have access to a culture permitted the rite of passage into adulthood. This creates a void in a critical period / stage of life. Unfortunately, those who are not traditional, socially acceptable fashion, in this passage, may rely on such things as the encoding / crews, or even strips (with the opening ceremony), the girls of pregnancy (the test of femininity ), boys impregnating someone (proof of virility), sex and anti-authorization "(vandalism, damage in the classroom or in an apartment, body piercing / tattoos / strange hair styles and clothing). earn their way to the belt ranking system, ideally, all the way to a black belt-Rite provides a powerful step for our young people an alternative and interpolations. Do-Miss Benefit # 5: Teamwork and Etiquette Many children have to scrabble for the respect of colleagues were foppte as already mentioned, their true feelings, to respond, or perhaps for the struggle and the feeling of not attending school. Each of these situations may result from their child / adolescent years, an "every man for himself, and forget the rest" mentality of survival. Practice martial arts and usually requires an entire class or two, the team format. In both cases, each student will be responsible for the welfare of students and partners. Will not, if potentially dangerous practice techniques, the other - Who are his friends in danger. Martial arts instruction in good health, of course, I meet every first parameter. Do-Miss Benefit # 6: Strengthen security in a dangerous world Of course, there is, of course, nothing can ensure that our children more secure and protected, it is he who is more prepared to respond better to sudden death, a situation of danger or an attack or verbal provocation. There are stories of young people, many of whom are girls who have fought, the men try to attack or a family. This is not what happens, but it is much more to those who are trained and prepared, mentally and physically. Sure-fire Benefit # 7: Personal Empowerment Martial arts paradox is that those who know, the fight against such rarely. Learn to defend himself from the need to "prove" to the duress of the road, in class or at home. Learning Martial Arts is a counterbalance to the violence. In my 20 years working with children full time, I found the past tyrants who are often victims of bullying, drug users are victims of past abuse, etc. So, we are able to child health, a Martial Artist as an example for the fight against violence by their colleagues. In a sense, the presence of someone who refuses to Bully or harassed, is a powerful driver for his friends, acquaintances, relatives and classmates. A personal note from my wife: How do you find the right school / teachers This topic deserves an article, but my wife, a specialist in early childhood for all children and parents, who kindly said less than useful to give you some guidelines, such as choosing a Martial Arts Program. I have four Asian art more seriously than a dozen years old, probably 8-10 settings, and I saw the best and the worst of schools and teachers. Here's how I have distilled that experience and suggest you start. • How do you feel when you go to the foot of the door of the study for the first time, what to think, but how do you feel? And 'This is the reason or not? • Teachers of your teenager a good fit? Or is it too ambitious? In pain? In Macho? To competitiveness? Too young / old? • The promises realistic, or are difficult to try to sell you? And for how long they have been here? If you do not want the place closed its doors, as adolescence is half way to black belt. • Is there a good balance between the self-learning (is?) AND fun? • E 'health promotion, if your teen to continue for years or even decades, or is it wear on joints, but also young, also depends on external force size, or is it an art, the practice may be used for life? A Kid's emotions about the possibility of a life dream of winning, black belt, the solution to your dilemma gift, and your gift can benefit busy. I hope that you, if you have a long struggle, which leads to difficulty in finding, or adolescence, this article may help you push the start of a long journey of better health, self-awareness and understanding, compassion and trust.

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